http://www.swvoice.com/home/Blog/olivia My mom is moving to the SW en-us http://www.swvoice.com/home/Blog/olivia/14542 Every year in the fall, my friends and I would get together and create a collage of things we wanted to accomplish within 5 years or a year.<br /> <br /> It was nice to put things in perspective, anything from re-doing your bathroom to becoming more organized.<br /> <br /> I really enjoyed that gathering but it's been awhile since we have done that.<br /> <br /> Now comes, life's list -- things you want to accomplish before you check out, so to speak. Mi amiga just finished putting hers together.<br /> <br /> Life's lists are becoming popular these days. Lots of people are doing them so I figure maybe this can be a new way for me to outline my priorities for the rest of my life.<br /> <br /> Here's my life's list -- though I think I'll be revising it from time to time as I check things off and maybe add new ones.<br /> <br /> 1. Run a half marathon, followed by a full marathon. <br /> I love to run, especially hills and trails. Not crazy about flat roads, but I will do it, if there is not a hill in sight. There's this Nike Marathon in the Bay Area. It raises money for Leukemia and Lymphoma Society. My 8-year-old Godson, Jeremiah, is a Leukemia survivor so I want to do something to recognize him. Plus, there's something about running, relaxing and solitude. It's my time. Plus, if I can log in 12-16 miles a week, then what else can I accomplish? <br /> <br /> 2. Do the Mud Run<br /> As you can see, physical fitness is one important item to me. But this is more out of sheer craziness. I have friends and a jarhead of a spouse who does it. Every year, I tell myself I am going to do it. I haven't yet. It's not the running that scares me. The obstacles, the obstacles! But I gotta do it. Otherwise, I'll be spending the rest of my&nbsp; life wondering, what if?<br /> <br /> 3. Further my education<br /> College was a wonderful, unforgettable time in my life. Earning my degrees were special milestones in my life. And I need to continue. Of course, I need to do that as I manage work and family life. So the bigger task is managing school with my full-time career and family life. But, hey, I am driven. I mean, MBA Olivia or Ph.D Olivia sound really nice together. It will take time but I got to dedicate myself to it!<br /> <br /> 4. Improve my home<br /> I love my home. It was built in the 1950s and has a large lot. Older homes have such characters. There is something about older casas that can take my breath away. Maybe it's all the hidden or untold history that the walls have seen. I don't want to lose that beauty. I do want to add some more square footage for an extra bedroom and an extra entertainment room. I don't want a new home to do this. It can be accomplished in my home. Plus, I need to build a pool. My boys love to swim!<br /> <br /> 5. Story-telling family history<br /> Family is a priority in my life. Besides work, it's my family. I just need to make sure that I am constantly sharing past stories of my family so my boys know their history. They only&nbsp; met one great-grandparent so they need to be reminded of their roots.<br /> <br /> 6. Take my boys to Washington, DC when they are older<br /> I think it's important to connect history through real-life's experiences and what better way to teach my boys about our constitution, Supreme Court, Arlington National Cemetery than to take them there. I want to do it when they are in their pre-teens or teen years so they can have a better understanding of it all.<br /> <br /> 7. Write a Chica Lit book <br /> I am a big fan of the word so it makes sense to have this desire to want to write a book. I would love to write a funny or heart-wrenching piece on some Latino experience, maybe it's about Latina chicas on a new venture or maybe it's about one particular Hispanic family and their own challenges and special moments. Or maybe it's just a book of Chicana poetry -- another favorite item for me. It's on my list to do!<br /> <br /> 8. Visit the Pyramids<br /> I learned so much about my family's heritage and ancestors through my Chicano history classes in college. Again, in hand with the family trip to DC, I want to visit the pyramids and imagine what life was life for the Aztecs and other indigenous people in the motherland of my great-grandparents. It's more of a personal journey to learn of my family's history.<br /> <br /> Well, that's all I can think of right now... What's on your life's list? Got any tips for me? http://www.swvoice.com/home/Blog/olivia/7652 So my mom is moving to the Southwest part of town. She found a house that she is excited about. I am happy for her but am bummed that she won't be a hop-skip-jump away from me. My mom used to live about 5 minutes away from me. Now it will take me about 30&nbsp; minutes to see her. She's moving into the outskirts of SW. <br /> Bakersfield is growing so much that we don't realize how far it is to get places these days, well, except if you're driving down Rosedale or Truxtun Ext. Even Stockdale can be a bit busy. <br /> Now I need to figure out the quickest, and fastest way to her to her place. That would be helpful when you have three impatient boys, 3 months, 8 and 9-1/2, that are going in on the ride. I forgot to mention my husband who likes to tell me how to drive when I am driving... even tho I have a clean record! :-)